Tips to Be Successful in Life

Success is not a milestone but a journey.

First of all, you have to set a goal according to your passion. Rest assured, when one enjoys work, then the probability of success increases dramatically. So, it is essential for you to explore your inside and find out your areas of core competence. Subsequently, pursue your passion by setting a goal and plan a course of action.

No two individuals are the same. Every person is different in character, traits, thinking, background and many more aspects. Therefore, there is no particular mantra for success. Every person has to define their path to success. However, there are some pieces of advice provided by great personalities that can help you in realizing your dreams.

Positive thinking and positive attitude are the two ends of the boat that sails you through the river full of hurdles. They not only helps you in achieving your goal but makes you a better person over and above all.

Also, it is vital never to let your professional goals ruin your personal life. Balance is must between both of them. The joy of success doubles sharing with loved ones.

Don’t let the fear of failure holds you back.  Don’t hold yourself back when you have an idea that is new to others. Always back yourself in taking calculated risks. Self-motivation is equally important to keep moving forward. Never forget to treat your spirit when you achieve something, no matter how small. Love your life, enjoy your actions and be kind to yourself.

Don’t lie on the ground when you fall, get up; it’s not about the first place always, crawl to cross the finish line.

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Cricket is life…Life is Cricket

Cricket is life…Life is cricket : If you are living in a country called India, I am sure you could relate to any of the two emotional phrases in the title. It is just that you define one of the phrases. This is where the article becomes a must-read for you.

FORGET FEAR, DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT.” ― MAHENDRA SINGH DHONI IT?

Say… you are the one for whom “Cricket is life”…it means you are the one who plays cricket, who knows cricket, who is passionate about it.

Now let’s say “Life is cricket” for you…it means you may not be the one who plays cricket or who knows much about cricket. But whenever India plays a match, you are always there in front of the T.V cheering and shouting… ‘India…India’.

Be on either side, we, the Indians are in love with the game of cricket. To segregate it further, you gotta be kidding me if you are a Ranchiite and you are not an MSDian.

Cricket is a religion for some and for some it’s just a game…but irrespective of how you see it, let us expand our mental horizons and relate to India’s favorite sport in our real lives. 

Many of us perceive it as a glamorous sport and feel jealous of a cricketer’s lifestyle, fit bodies, name, fame, and money. But how many of us know how have our heroes reached the international stage? How many of us know how disciplined they are in terms of their regime, diet, and routine to maintain that level?

How many of us are aware of their failures behind their success? And when they have reached here, how many of us know what they go through in and off the field?

We only see them playing but you know, there is a lot we need to see beyond the conventional batting, bowling and fielding aspects. My dear friend, the game of cricket is not less than a life lesson.

Reference : Cricket is life

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7 Ways to Beat Anxiety

How Anxiety has Crept into the Lives of Common Folk?

In this fast-paced world, where everyone and everything seems to be in a rush people suffering from emotional trauma are a usual sight.

People, in a haste to grab every opportunity, all the happiness they aspire, makes them bear tremendous amounts of pressure and stress, which leads to a common disease- Anxiety. Relationships of the present era are also the main culprits of anxiety issues in people. 

What is Anxiety?

When a person is restless, lashes out at everything, and sometimes goes into utmost silence similar to depression, the person is said to be suffering from an Anxiety disorder.

Prolonged anxiety can lead to abnormality in mental health, depression, instant aggression, and abnormal mood swings. Hence it is very crucial to battle anxiety in its initial stages.

How to battle anxiety?

• Have emotional and mental support: Be close to people who understand and trust you. Discuss all your problems and fears with them. You might find it difficult at first but eventually, with the time you will feel more relaxed, less impatient and light-hearted.

• Talk to people with similar issues-  When we talk to a person who is also suffering from anxiety, our brain starts to feel accompanied. We are able to relate to his/her problems and can share our ways of getting rid of anxiety.

• Spend some time in the open Nature: Introduce yourself to morning walk sessions in the fresh air, away from noise and pollution. Spending some with yourself, evaluating your flaws and strength. The fresh air of the dawn uplifts your mood and relieves you of all the burdens of yesterday, refreshing you and recharging your potential.

• Eat what you love: Have a cheat day from your daily routine meal, and savor the food you relish the most. It is proved that the favorite food can help uplift the mood of a person suffering from anxiety.

• Devote time for your hobbies: Devote time to your hobbies every day. These hobbies make you cherish and forget your anxiety. Do whatever you like to do the most, as it will reap innumerable moments of happiness for you.

• Identify the cause of anxiety: Identify the root cause of anxiety in yourself and whatever that task may be, complete it asap. It will reduce the burden upon your mind and heart, thus lowering your anxiety.

• Don't overthink: Overthinking is the main culprit of the cause of anxiety amongst youth and people. Overthinking can only lead to piling up of stress and leading to depression.

Conclusion:

Whatever may be the reason for your anxiety, you have to comprehend the fact that anxiety is just a phase and it will pass eventually. You are the person who has to come strongly from this phase and handle your relationships, work and others simultaneously and make them successful.

Why this difference between us?

This is a heartfelt letter from a person who lost her friend, a companion, her soulmate she found in a single person. But now, he is no longer with her. Yes, he is alive but he has parted ways... But her love still prevails!!! No, she does not want him back but there are some unsaid feelings she wishes to express to him, and to everyone!!!

And here she begins…

YOU OPTED TO GROW UP BUT I OPTED TO REMAIN A CHILD…

I PREFERRED TO STAY THE SAME BUT YOU LOVED THE CHANGE.

You know why?

Because the change was for your good, not mine. I can understand that you were ambitious enough to lash onto every opportunity but how could you when the foundation of it was my failure?

You did not realize that your success ladder was not wide enough that we climbed together. But you never looked back to check whether I was behind.

You know… I was all ears in your struggling times. I made you run when you could not stand. I gave you a purpose to fight when you were on the brink of losing. I literally gave you life when you were on the verge of a suicide.

Now how could you glow your candle without realizing that it was my wax which is burning? How could you move on leaving me behind? How could you take a stride when either of your 

shoes was not mine? How did you clap when either of your hands was not mine?

I know you are not good at expressinglove but then how were you so good at expressing the bitterness? You doubted my reciprocation emphasizing that I changed. You said I don’t love you anymore… You were not completely wrong because you didn’t deserve it anymore.

Yes, both of us wanted a bigger house, but it is you who forgot that…

THE BIGGER THE HOUSE,

THE LONGER THE DISTANCE BETWEEN THE ROOMS.

You forgot that the foundation of a healthy relationship is respect, and not always love!!! You cursed my anger and frustration but never realized it was my pain shouting at you. 

You said you don’t see a smile; I say you didn’t see my tears…

You called me possessive and insecure but I say it was love. You spoke to get heard but about my words…they sought attention, but your ears called them trespassers.

I know you found my fault and I found yours… And maybe neither of us was wrong and the situation was guilty. But you know what, you were never ready to be tested in those situations. 

No, you were not a liar either but the problem was you were brutally honest. I took pride in calling you ‘my man’ but you turned out to be more of a man with fewer emotions.

I am sure you never cheated on me with other women but does that make you loyal? Sorry I deny because you stopped looking at me either. I’m sure you never slept with other women but why did you stop sleeping with me?

It was our mutual decision that I conceive. The decision which once looked beautiful seems ugly now. You know why?

Because I am the one who has to live with that decision, not you. Yes, I am still facing the wrath to conceive that decision. Abortion was your solution, but it was ‘your solution to your insecurities.’ If you ask me which you never did, it was a heinous crime.

Society… we never cared about, but I never realized that my family cared. Even now, I would not have cared, but I lost my family in the process of finding you. 

Neither I have a family now, nor I have you. Yes my love, your true color made me colorless.

I know you can get many marriage proposals today because of your fatal charm. And I’m sure you will lash onto the opportunity like you always do. But I want to tell you I need none; not because I will not get it but to differentiate between you and me.

I am struggling today… I am literally battling!!! Don’t deny even you may be battling… But there is a major difference in our battle…

I am battling alone against everyone. But you are battling with your huge army against no one.

Having said that, I will fight until my last breath to win my battle, not for superiority but to make you realize the absence of equality.

Not sure but I think I wasted a lot more time on you. But I took a while to walk off because of a genuine problem. You know what the problem was?

THE PROBLEM WAS I WAS TOO BUSY LISTENING TO MY HEART THAT I DID NOT HEAR THE CRIES OF MY SOUL.

And darling, I don’t doubt your reciprocation because I’m sure it was not love. But if you ever miss me, make sure the guilt trip is long enough… Because walking away was not my choice, you just let me go!!!

Wishing you morality and loyalty…

Never yours,

Always your well-wisher

Why would a person pay for a life coach?

Why would a person pay for a life coach?

Today’s generation is troubled in their respective lives due to lack of time. They are getting demotivated and stressed very easily. Due to this, people are becoming mentally and emotionally ill. To overcome these problems, life coaches are the best people to help the current generation.

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How do they do it?

In earlier times, our grandparents and parents were our life coaches. They were always there for us to heed all our agonies and problems. But nowadays, people don’t have time to attend to their problems. Life coaches are today’s pseudo-guardians.  They are the mentors that help people to face and overcome their problems in various phases of life, whether the problem is personal or professional.

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Why should you opt for a paid life coach?

• Life coaches are the mentors that help you save time as they offer you advice that is successful in case of the majority of people facing the same problem. Just investing a bit of money can offer a viable solution. 
• They are the coaches that guide you in any problem you are dealing with whether be it relationships, or business. They even offer advice about achieving calmness or peace of mind. They not only offer advice for the problems but also guide the mentee about how to avoid the same problems in the future.
• In the case of business life coaches, they guide you in achieving the goals as well as making subsequent improvements.
• They may help you to decide what demands your utmost attention. They help you to clear your thoughts and make the right decisions. They are the mentors who give you the confidence to pursue your dreams and provide a methodology to convert them into reality. 
• They even provide you advice on time management so that you can give the right amount of attention to everyone and everything. Even if there is no one by your side to heed to all your thoughts, they are there for you in all your good and bad times. They will always contribute towards your success.
• They will help you build up your confidence in every domain and help you excel in life. They extract all your stress and worries so that you give your best every time, on whichever platform you perform. If you cling onto a good life coach they will make you the best version of yourself. 

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Things to look out for while choosing a life coach:

As there are no certifications for a life coach, you may eventually end up opting for an incompetent one.

Make sure that you are able to connect with him as this will help you to express yourself freely.

Look out for the fees, that they are charging as sometimes they are very expensive.

Don’t fall out for a fancy looking life coach profile as they can be fake or not as you expected. 

For a person who is suffering, life coaches are a friend in disguise.

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